Bev, I’m so sorry. This has been our life for the past few years and all I can say is that there is no magic wand that can be waved, you can only do what can be done, which you did. Not everyone does. That flashing light on the telephone? I know exactly what you mean. You cared. It sounds easy, but it’s not. Many don’t.

You honoured her, did your best, any more isn’t possible. Slowly, this fact will help lift the feelings of guilt. I guess we’re about the same age. It’s been four months for us. Ever so gradually an ending turns into a beginning. My thoughts are with you.