They're lying. Yet the algorithmic motivates this. The emphasis on "nowness" makes it hard to see "100 articles by Saviour "Savvy" Whyte where he repeats himself ad infinitum", even though it's true.

Flow states? Sure, whatever. It only needs to be said once.

Western society has little patience for the time and effort it takes to nurture a young child. This only seems to encourage a kind of "performative" effort, which men specialise in. Linkedin indicates a fair share of all "professionals" get up to this.

Selective compassion isn't really compassion at all. As you say, we need to break the cycles of stigma and shaming.